The tension between South Africans and Nigerians is a topic that continues to raise eyebrows and spark debate across the African continent. Recently, VeryDarkMan, a prominent Nigerian influencer, took to social media to address the ongoing issues of envy, dislike, and jealousy that he perceives South Africans harbor against Nigerians. His statements were sparked by the discrimination faced by Nigerian contestant Chidima at the Miss South Africa Award.
The Roots of the Conflict
VeryDarkMan started by expressing confusion over where the hostility from South Africans toward Nigerians originated. According to him, the enmity seems unprovoked from the Nigerian side. He pointed out that, growing up in Nigeria, he never heard stories of Nigerians blaming South Africans for their challenges. However, he has observed a consistent pattern of disdain from South Africans towards Nigerians, culminating in accusations that Nigerians are “taking away” jobs in South Africa.
This resentment, he argues, has even escalated to violent acts against Nigerians in South Africa. VeryDarkMan referred to incidents where Nigerians were targeted and killed simply because they were seen as competition in the job market. He contrasted this with the relatively peaceful presence of South African companies in Nigeria, such as MTN and Shoprite, which continue to operate without facing similar backlash.
Nigerians and Ghanaians: A Different Relationship
VeryDarkMan also drew comparisons between the relationships Nigerians have with other African nations, specifically Ghana. He described the relationship between Nigerians and Ghanaians as one of “toxic love,” where the two nations engage in playful banter but still share a deep bond. Even in instances where they joke about cultural differences, such as the ongoing debate about which country has better jollof rice, there is mutual respect and camaraderie. He emphasized that this kind of playful rivalry never escalates into the kind of animosity he perceives from South Africans.
The Miss South Africa Incident
The tipping point for VeryDarkMan’s outburst was the treatment of Chidima, a Nigerian contestant at the Miss South Africa Award. He accused South Africans of intentionally discriminating against Chidima to ensure that she did not win, even suggesting that the award was given to a non-African just to prevent a Nigerian from claiming the title. This, he argued, is part of a broader pattern of discrimination and exclusion.
A Call for Unity
VeryDarkMan concluded by expressing disappointment in the actions of South Africans, questioning what Nelson Mandela, a global symbol of unity and reconciliation, would think of the current state of affairs. He urged for a re-evaluation of the relationship between South Africans and Nigerians, advocating for unity rather than division.
The ongoing tension between South Africans and Nigerians, as highlighted by VeryDarkMan, raises important questions about the nature of African unity and the challenges that arise from xenophobia and competition. While the roots of the conflict may be complex, VeryDarkMan’s call for introspection and unity is a reminder that, as Africans, there is more that unites us than divides us. Addressing these issues with open dialogue and mutual respect could pave the way for a more harmonious coexistence on the continent.